Here are three reasons to not only lower your standards, but to go out of your way to have sex with ugly girls.
1. It takes attractive girls off their pedestal
With all the emphasis guys place on banging attractive girls, it’s funny to me that having sex with ugly girls feels exactly the same. Talk to your dick the morning after banging a girl from Brooklyn, and see if that dude gives a shit. He won’t even know what you’re talking about. As a result, banging attractive girls is easy for me because I’m just as willing to have sex with an ugly girl and sometimes more willing if the ugly girl smells good and is feminine. If you’re only chasing the most attractive girls, they feel the imposition, and no matter how smooth you may think you are, it’ll be impossible to hide your neediness.
2.You rise above the need for validation
Let’s say a guy has only banged three girls, then he bangs an ugly girl. Well, that one girl makes up a full 25 percent of the girls he’s banged. So the guy begins to ruminate—maybe he’s the guy who has sex with only ugly girls. Maybe that’s his lot in life. Maybe he’s a loser. This guy was me during a time in my life when I scrutinized girls the most. As you can see, I wasn’t too good to bang an ugly girl, as I told myself—I was just using girls for validation, and so I was afraid banging an ugly girl would damage my self-concept. On the other hand, let’s say you’ve banged 100 girls, then you bang the ugliest girl in the world. That one girl is going to have little to no impact on your self-concept. Understanding this should make you feel like a fag for having second thoughts about talking to a girl because her ass is a little dumpy.
And my story is far from ideal. I was an OCD mess. Always be happy to bang ugly girls, no matter what your ugly/attractive bang ratio is. When you learn to shamelessly and joyfully have sex with ugly girls, life becomes capital “F” fun. Not coincidentally, life also becomes a hurricane of pussy.
3. You appreciate girls for the right reason
Once you take girls off their pedestal and overcome your need for validation, it becomes much easier to appreciate girls for how they make you feel. A girl’s acne, big nose, or short hair rarely get in the way of that. You know that feminine laugh that cute girls have that makes you forget about your desire to kill yourself? Yeah, ugly girls laugh like that, too. You know that smell of female skin that envelops your being when you get within three feet of a girl? Yeah, ugly girls give that off, too. You know that feeling you get that isn’t total misery when you’re with a girl who has some semblance of self-esteem and sense of life? Yeah, you get that feeling from ugly girls, too.